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Astralcrescent
Level 52
Joined: 2/8/2023
Threads: 18
Posts: 123
Posted: 3/7/2023 at 3:02 PM
Post #11
i no longer feel comfortable using this site
Edited By Astralcrescent on 3/25/2023 at 4:59 PM.
Spaceshiprat
Level 75
Warden of Umbra
Joined: 3/7/2023
Threads: 8
Posts: 81
Posted: 3/7/2023 at 3:59 PM
Post #12
Oh my gosh dearie you don't need people to explain this site for you, you need the strength to put it aside if it's affecting your mental health.
I know the sunken cost fallacy can make you feel bad, and you might feel like you spent money so you shouldn't stop playing, but IT'S OK, the site and your account will always be there and you can come back when you are feeling better.
I'm also an aspie and I play these sites *because* they work just fine with my executive disfunction, I can just bobble between silly tasks and quests, and open fun boxes of loot, and breed pets and throw them away because they came out meh... but my thing is I don't get invested into complicated breeding projects because I'll never have the attention span to stick with it and like, make spreadsheets and notes like the "pros" do.
try and engage with a little mindfulness for yourself and sort out the good and bad feelings about this game, and if it's mostly bad feelings, you should give up on breeding, or put it away, delete all the bookmarks, and find something else to pass the time that makes you *happy* because hobbies are supposed to make you happy.
Edited By Spaceshiprat on 3/7/2023 at 4:05 PM.
Fireflick
Level 75
Fancy Pants
Joined: 2/20/2023
Threads: 8
Posts: 330
Posted: 3/7/2023 at 4:33 PM
Post #13
hey, astralcrescent!
first and foremost, i want to add to what spaceshiprat said. if sylestia is affecting your mental health, i would just drop it. your mental health is always first priority. in addition, your worth is not based on what anyone says or makes you feel. this game should not be making of you think of yourself in a negative way. if that's the case, i would drop it. accounts aren't deleted on here, so if you ever want to come back, you can. :)
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as for your question, i know you're struggling, so i don't want to make it worse. however, i do have an autistic brother and wondered if i would be able to phrase things differently so you understand better. if that's not the case, i apologize.
so it looks like your post was about a ferrikki you bought - penelope? it seemed like you were having difficulty understanding the diamond shop and coloring, right? can you explain that a little bit more? sorry, i have some trouble reading large portions of text too, haha
once again, this isn't a bother. it's perfectly fine to have questions and not understand everything :)
Astralcrescent
Level 52
Joined: 2/8/2023
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Posts: 123
Posted: 3/8/2023 at 8:55 AM
Post #14
i am no longer comfortable using this site
Edited By Astralcrescent on 3/25/2023 at 4:59 PM.
Astralcrescent
Level 52
Joined: 2/8/2023
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Posted: 3/10/2023 at 4:39 AM
Post #15
i am no longer comfortable using this site
Edited By Astralcrescent on 3/25/2023 at 5:00 PM.
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