Link: https://www.sylestia.com/forums/?thread=109907&page=2#20 Author: DragzX Time Posted: 2/25/2025 at 9:06 AM I had to prep for, grieved during, and been mourning since the day that my first pet dog, Chico, was euthanized on 2/10/2025, at the age of 15 years. He's a Chipin (Chihuahua Miniature Pinscher), and had developed asthma, bilateral cataracts, and chronic arthritis "in his back, hind legs, + lower spine and hips" during his life. His hybrid breed's average life expectancy is between 10-14 years, and anything up to or past 16 being uncommon, especially those with health conditions. He was on anti-inflammatory steroidal meds during the last 1-2 or 3 years to manage his chronic arthritis. As without 'em, he wouldn't have been able to walk with his hind legs due to the sheer pain. The reason as for why my parents had to put him down was due to him silently but suddenly suffering and slowly dying from an unknown affliction. It was later discovered by vet clinic staff to actually be late-diagnosed heart failure right before his euthanization procedure that same day. Which was the best call to make, as that ended his pain n' suffering peacefully without any pain once so ever. He's in a better place now, wherever and whatever that place may personally be for him. My father had to put down his own first pet cat, Little Hope/Hopie, a male Silver Point Siamese, down during the 90's due to kidney failure, way before I was even born and adopted by them. My parents refused to let me be there by Chico's side during his final moments, as they didn't want to burden/scar me with witnessing death in-person for the first time, but this decision of theirs still hurts n' irks me even now. Having to choose between either passing away naturally or be medically aided in passing away (only as a last resort) without feeling any pain or suffering, will always be a tricky but morally tangled dilemma, especially so when needing to force oneself to pick between the two, regardless of how or when we personally do/don't want it to happen. I still miss Chico even now, as I wasn't completely satisfied with how his euthanization day unfolded nor how my father handed it, especially when he forced me without having any say during it. I sincerely wish you the best with handling Lucky's final moments of life, however short or long that may end up being, without him having to die while suffering and/or in pain. And I'm very much hoping that it happens naturally, not having it be unnaturally forced so soon (like my parents and the vet clinic staff did with mine, practically only giving me a week to work with preparing to grieve then mourn his death). Happy late Valentine's Day to Lucky & you Krinadon, and good luck!

Thank you for sharing and I am very sorry for your loss.

As you mentioned in your post, making that ultimate decision is extremely difficult. There's so many factors involved and it's impossible to ever truly know what our companions are feeling in regards to pain/discomfort. They always just soldier on as that's how they are biologically hardwired. At some point, as their caretakers, we just have to make that really tough decision for them.

I can definitely understand your frustration with your parent's decision. I would imagine they were just trying to do what they thought was best for you - just as they felt they were doing what was best for Chico. It's all just a very difficult circumstance to deal with and is never an easy or simple one.

However, you will always have your fond memories of all of those years with Chico and of any new companions who join you throughout your life's journey.

Link: https://www.sylestia.com/forums/?thread=109907&page=3#21 Author: Krinadon Time Posted: 2/25/2025 at 9:35 AM [quote=2763719] Thank you for sharing and I am very sorry for your loss. As you mentioned in your post, making that ultimate decision is extremely difficult. There's so many factors involved and it's impossible to ever truly know what our companions are feeling in regards to pain/discomfort. They always just soldier on as that's how they are biologically hardwired. At some point, as their caretakers, we just have to make that really tough decision for them. I can definitely understand your frustration with your parent's decision. I would imagine they were just trying to do what they thought was best for you - just as they felt they were doing what was best for Chico. It's all just a very difficult circumstance to deal with and is never an easy or simple one. However, you will always have your fond memories of all of those years with Chico and of any new companions who join you throughout your life's journey.

Thanks for that, as I really appreciate it. As well, you're welcome.

Good to us both. <3

A somber update this morning. Sadly, Lucky's condition started to rapidly deteriorate this past week. We visited the vet this morning to see if there was anything that could be done. Unfortunately, there were not any remaining options. With his reduced weight, his exam showed lumps in his abdomen that were previously not detected. So, most likely, he's been suffering from Lymphoma for quite some time which, coupled with his kidney and other issues, just kind of exasperated everything. His heart was working overtime trying to keep up so it was not advised to begin steroids.

So it is with a very heavy heart that I have to announce that we made the decision to put him to rest this morning. It was an amazing 16 years and 8 months. He was the most loving cat I've ever known. Even when he probably felt beyond awful, he still would never hesitate to love on us. He will be very sorely missed.



I will re-list the [Lucky the Loving] Avatar Item in the Avatar Shop for the duration of the Fortune Event for anyone else who's interested in owning that item.

(This should be in the Fortune Event Overview thread, but I don't want to make another ping just for it) I should have everything set up to run today at noon. However, I wouldn't be surprised if there's a few hiccups. I will try and get any issues resolved as soon as possible.

I will also try and get the Forum Games posted ASAP as well as parsing the Week of Love Forum Games. Obviously, I can't make any promises on getting it done today but I will do my best.

Thank you all for your love and support.

Rest in peace, lovely little man.

Prayers for you and yours. <3 I'm so sorry.

I am so sorry to hear this. Rest in peace, beautiful boy.

It is never easy to lose a beloved pet. He was so blessed to have you as his friend. Thank you for giving him such a good life and taking such good care of him at the end of his life. Many hugs!

awe im so sorry for you loss Krinadon! i know what its like, we are going through a hard time with our family dog, he's legs arent doing so great, but we have an appointment monday to the vets, so hopefully we can find out im a little worried to be honest bc he's being having trouble keep up on his back legs, so we've been having to help him out alot more, so, i totally get what you went through Krinadon! and im here for you :) hugs :)

Rest in peace, Lucky <3

Be at peace, Krin and family, knowing you gave Lucky the best life he could hope for. <3