so i got ALL these cool clothes for my Avatar, but when I go to my Wardrobe, i can't SEE them! what am I doing wrong? I highlighted them in my inventory, then clicked "Use Item" and they vanished, but where did they go? I am really confused! HELP!

After you've clicked use item from your inventory they should appear in the very last tab, labeled "Items" from your wardrobe. The base, style, and clothing tabs will not have any of the items that you find throughout the site, rather those 3 tabs contain avatar stuff that can only be bought using Advancement Points.

Also, once you get to the Items tab you'll notice that every item that can be equipped will show up. Most will be greyed out, while the ones that you've found will have a white background!

Let me know if that wasn't clear enough, or if you'd like to know more!